Can God Really Help Me in My Pain?

By: Rodney Holmstrom Fellowship Bible Church Celebrate Recovery Pastor, 3/4/20
"Grain must be ground to make bread." Isaiah 8:28

If you look up the ecological term, "secondary succession" you will see this defined as "a process started by an event”, (e.g. forest fire or hurricane leading to polluted streams and/or flooded land).

Many of us have experienced or are in the middle of experiencing some kind of tough 'event'. Are you experiencing a tough season right now? Are you feeling like God is absent in your pain?

Maybe you’re thinking: "Can He really help me?” “Will He really come to my rescue?” “Will this misery in my life ever subside?” “Will I ever have hope again?” “Why is this happening?”

Some of the most difficult times in my life have proven to be some of my biggest growing times in my faith. "The strongest trees are found not in the thick shelter of the forest, but out in the open, where winds from every direction beat down upon them." - E.A. Kilbourne 

Brother or sister, whatever you are going through, please know that God will never abandon nor forsake you. He will use this pain to grow you and strengthen you. Instead of asking "Why, Lord?" Let's ask "What can I learn through this tough event, storm, flood, or pollution in my life, Lord?"

"The Lord is a refuge for the oppressed, a stronghold in times of trouble. Those who know Your name will trust in You, for You, Lord, have never forsaken those who seek You." Psalms 9:9-10

Keep seeking and trusting Him friend.

What 'secondary succession' has happened in your life? How has God fulfilled His promises in you?

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